Relationships ARE NOT Meant To Be Worked On

Why on Earth would you be in a relationships if this means “work”? Are you a masochist? Are you an workaholic? Of course not. (Or are you?:)))

Relationships are meant to be good, to be easy, to form, grow, give back, return, increase the “ends” – which is you and the other person in the relationships – transforms, comfort, nurture, ascend. Themselves, you, and the other person. The more you grow, the more the “others” grow – your relationships, and the persons, things, circumstances, places, opportunities, situations you “get” into relationships with.

RELATIONSHIPS ARE NOT WORK.

They merely evolve depending on you. In “relationship” with you. They are merely mirroring back to you who you are, what you do, who you become. They are living beings, created by you. Instead of pushing them to “others”, turn their faces back to you. Harmonize them with yourself. Let them give you what they want to, accept, receive, and then give them back. Harmonize, resonate with you.

The more you feel harmonized with a relationship, the “other”- person, circumstance, situation, place, thing – loses focus, loses “importance”. The focus is on YOU, as it is meant to be.

Relationships held your giving. Sometimes your “gift” is received, sometimes it remains caught up in the relationship, neither of the parties taking it. What you gave are parts of yourself, they need to be restored, to you, or somebody else. When a gift is received, the energy you “lost” when giving, is replaced by the energy of receiving, of the gift being received (usually the gratitude). When the gift is given, and it is not “received”- the other person does not take it energetically, there is not exchange for your energy placed in the gift – you perceive a loss, an unfinished business. Take your energy back. Harmonize yourself with the relationship. And take back everything you gave, and has not been received.

When you harmonize with all your relationships, taking back and receiving whatever remained “stringed”, you will feel complete. You will engage in different types of relationships then, where you’ll know that everything you give, you give to yourself.

Relationships are not meant to be worked on. They happen. Anyway. Relationships are meant to happen, to be lived, experienced, enjoyed. Just like yourself.