I do not feel comfortable knowing that people like or love me. It is very easy to interact and keep it going until I find out that the other person – male or female – likes me. The natural possibility of romance or closer relationship scares me very much. I want relationships, I want to … [Read more…]
You’ve been told it’s bad. You’ve been told it’s horrible. You were led to believe it hurts. Try it. Disappoint somebody. See what happens. People are very hard to disappoint. They almost never leave. Even if you want them to. See you can be who you are even if you thought it could never be. … [Read more…]
Toxic energy is the one that you do not need anymore, that can no longer propel you forward, teach you lessons, and ensure your evolution. Toxic energy may be stagnant because you cannot – do not want to – release it, or you are so attached to it so you keep on recreating it. Whenever … [Read more…]
We are human beings. Nature is not predictable. Why “should” we? We’ve started to appreciate predictability, stability. You take this and get that. All very good, not so “real” though with nature or (human) beings. You can do it for a while, looking for predictability, seeking predictability, marketing predictability, selling it. It may work for … [Read more…]
“I Was Born To Love You” I was born to love you with every single beat of my heart Yes I was born to take care of you Every single day of my life (you may listen to the rest here). Be blessed! I know we all are. Receive it, and have yourself wholly and holly, … [Read more…]
“the true success is to labor” “love conquers everything” “you need to start from the bottom” “you need to work hard” “poverty is virtue” “charity is a virtue” “God cannot talk to you” “you need to make a living” “money is not for good people” “you need to sacrifice” “no pain, no gain” “success is … [Read more…]
Or anyone, for that matter. Time is important, time is now, for you to tell us what you do. Your contribution is important. We need you. It is time for all of us to contribute, to let our unicity fill in the gap it is supposed to. It is now when your voice is important, when we … [Read more…]
“Spend too much time with the things you cannot control, and lose contact with the ones you can control” – the definition of insuccess by John Wooden, coach. The Insuccess … could therefore success be defined as spending time with the things you can control? it just looks like the “definition” of who you are: “you are where … [Read more…]
You simply cannot put somebody else but you first. Literally. Physically speaking, you are meant to survive. Any action you take is intended toward the survival of the species – that includes you. You are ALWAYS putting YOURSELF first! If you somehow developed the belief that you need to be dismissive, inferior, weaker, in order to survive, … [Read more…]
“I am completely crazy when someone gets ill. I feel inability, madness, fury against it. I am focused on solving “the illness”, of fixing it, getting things to where they used to be, and try to forget about it. Although I am not furious on the person for getting ill, it very much looks like … [Read more…]