Letting go, giving up, is easy when it’s time for release, when the intention is releasing, and not really giving up at all. Transforming the “have to” energy into the “want to”, “looking forward to”, “I am excited to” energy makes the difference between giving up and releasing, between “beaten up” and “in joy”. When you … [Read more…]
Values equal judgment and attachment. You value something when you made the judgment that they are “valuable”, they bring in something – emotional, material, spiritual – that you are looking for, and whose result of having “makes” you (feel) a certain way. You do not value the “it”- you value how “it” makes you feel, the … [Read more…]
You are permanently connected with the source, with the intelligence, knowledge is changing permanently – what do you really know? You may have known things out of pure boredom, out of curiosity – remember what was your reason, don’t take it for stability, or knowledge. Knowledge is in the present moment. It changes permanently. Forget … [Read more…]
And when you know what it is that you want, be aware of who it is who wants. The woman who marries for her looks, and wants to be praised for her brains. The man who pays for “it” – you name it – and wants to be loved, praised, cherish for the person he is. … [Read more…]
You want to be loved? You want to be praised? You want to be cherished? You want to be cared for? WHAT is it that you want? And WHAT is it that you want to be seen as? What are you “laying” on the table? Relationships come and go. They are alive. They do their … [Read more…]
Relationships are …. or are not. They can’t be forced, they can’t be changed, they can’t be stopped. They are, or they are not. They are not meant to be worked on. Their purpose is love. They want to be loved, lived and enjoyed. You created them. (we know you love everybody. focus on the relationship, … [Read more…]
Blaise Pascal wrote: “Le plaisir des grands est de pouvoir faire des heureux.” The pleasure of the grand persons is to make others happy. One translation. Another is “The pleasure of the great people is to bring happiness, make themselves happy”. My favorite, though, is “the passion and enjoyment of great people is making happiness“. … [Read more…]
“I am hungry”. “ohhh, don’t worry, go grab something. we’ll just wait for you, or maybe we can all go”. “I am tired”. – Nobody says nothing. And yet … sleeping is important as feeding. And yet … nobody says “Sure, go grab some sleep. we’ll be waiting”. Food is social, sleep is solitary. You … [Read more…]
Duty may give you some pride and no choice. Right may give you the idea of entitlement, invincibility, superiority – and the frustration attached. Privilege. Privilege is your choice bringing satisfaction, meaning and fulfillment while you are gracefully receiving your contribution to yourself and many. Privilege is power while remaining humble and open, noticing, acknowledging and taking … [Read more…]
“We [humans] want to be free to and not free from”. Viktor Frankl We want to be allowed to (be, do, see, feel, taste, say whatever we want, we “feel” like), to have permission to (be, do, see, feel taste more), And whatever might be we have been wishing for. Including permission to be, to dream, to expand our reality, … [Read more…]