When you are in the middle of a storm, or things don’t go your way …
When you don’t understand what’s going on, and nothing seems to fall into place …
You used to think things are out of control.
They’re not.
You are doing this.
You see, when things change, it’s because you changed. It is because you chose something else. It may be intentional, or not. But YOU chose it, YOU wanted it – consciously or not.
Besides asking what is going on – true curiosity required – in case you don’t seem to remember making any choice consciously, know that you, yourself, deconstruct reality for the new things to show up.
Own the process – part of rebuilding is to shatter down what’s worn, torn and out.

