The less content you are with who (you think) you are, the greater the expectations you have from yourself and the world around you.
The less happy you are, the greater the expectations.
The less you enjoy who you are and what you do, the greater your expectations.
And you will want to change your job, your home, your spouse, your relationships, your kids…
And you will want to change everything and everybody to fit what you think is a better place, your place.
Your expectations (of others mainly) are high.
You are so bitter with you and the rest.
It is so difficult to turn back.
And yet, loving yourself, becoming content, being happy with something that is happening, will actually restore the balance and take you out of the hurricane. It is not somethings that others “should” or “could do, it is a decision with yourself. It means you are so far away from who you are, it’s simply time to “turn around” and get back.
In times of hard and confusion, simply love yourself. It changes your vibrations and will simply shift you from the “low” to the “high”, form the “outer” to the “inner”, in seconds. And you will be happy, peaceful and tranquil, and you will embrace “others” with grace and gratefulness, they will be drawn to you. And you will know that’s the best thing you could do. You will never know what’s best for the rest, what the future will bring, it will surprise you with the “best”.
Evolution implies we are all getting the best every time. It is what we want, and everything that the others want is less than the best. It is happening now, and it will always will. Since we are all getting the best naturally, why are you struggling now?
(ps When you’re happy and do what you really like – you’re immersed in you and what you’re doing – everything is fine. Everything is perfect. It is no other way it could be. You cannot even imagine it differently, your energy is so aligned with yourself, that’s the only thing that could be. And you continue going with your perfect world. And everything is perfect: your kids, your life, your spouse, your home. No expectations anymore. YOU ARE GRATEFUL. No improvements necessary, and yet you are content. You are settled in. You are who you want to be)

