There is one and only one thing you want and long for. You may have everything, if you don’t have that particular thing, you will feel unfulfilled, unhappy, unsettled. Don’t look around you – you will not find it. Find that relevant one thing by looking to yourself.
It defines all your relationships – with you, with other persons, with other things and circumstances. It influences your relationship with yourself, with your spouse, with your kid, with your parents, with your home, with your money, with your friends, with your job, with everything.
While everybody seems quite the same, some of your relationships thrive, some other dread. Can you say why?
What is missing? What is not there? What makes you fly to one thing, and turn you back to another?
It is not them, it’s you. How do you feel about them: are they boring, too funny (like irresponsible), too serious, too much action? No action, maybe.
Find “the one and only”!
When you want to make relationships “work” – be it with yourself, other persons or things, look for this “one and only”. Make it part of that relationship. And narrow it down until you feel eagerness and excitement when thinking about “meeting” the other – yourself, another person or a certain thing.
Life is so much better! And you are soooo looking forward to it.

