What do you do when somebody asks you to do their laundry, do their gardening, run their errands, do their homework, run their presentations, go to hospital with them when all you want to do is hold their hand?
What do you do when help is needed, and you want to help, yet, it is not exactly the one you had in mind, the one you have been thinking of, appropriate in your view, maybe, or you wanting to provide?
Regardless of the reasons you are not willing to provide the help in the form it is required, do not do it.
DON’T DO IT.
The energetic connection that you create when you do something against your will, against your being, what you are sometimes perceiving as sacrifice, or compromising yourself, has so much negativity – like remorse, hate, rejection – in it, that neither you or the other person will be able to clear up, let alone deal with.
No matter how hard, how difficult, how disruptive you may perceive the consequences be, do not do it.
Always do what your “energy” tells you to do, what feels all right, it is in your “nature”, in your “flow”. Trust that a prayer, a good word, a smile, gardening, and laundry, holding their hand, making a phone call, or paying their bills, coming from the heart, from your natural flow, goodwill nature, will raise vibrations in the universe to match the ones your “gift” – your help – is holding. Raising frequencies, changing to the love universe, will simply make the difference. For you and for the ones you are helping.

